Chatrandom saudia arabia - Dating several people at the same time

by  |  08-Jan-2015 18:09

My many relationships have fallen somewhere between a string of not-so-great first dates and being in love.

I've enjoyed the fun aspects of being with a partner without being tied down to one person emotionally.

Within a month of attempting to maintain my rotation, though, I disappointed one guy enough to get the, “I need to respect myself and not see you anymore” text. Even though I was into him and disappointed he wanted to cut the cord, I knew I wasn’t ready to be a girlfriend again so soon.

“I could only juggle three people at a time for one-month spans before it got out of hand — someone would freak out or want commitment,” she says.

“I dated someone for nine months that came out of a rotation.

While, it's been fun and I've learned a lot, I'm thinking that maintaining a rotation isn’t the best thing for me right now. Atypical relationship models work for many people — even if they’re temporary.

Because, really, whether or not dating many-a-partner is something you think you can handle, the most vital thing is to focus on your emotional and physical well-being. As with any romantic scenario, it’s important to have regular mental check-ins with yourself to determine whether the pros outweigh the cons.

Now that I'm older, I usually tend to only have strong feelings for one guy at a time.”Though dating a horde of people can feel fun and freeing, for most adventurers, it isn’t entirely sustainable.

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